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DEREK HART

Your online campus that trains you to help couples repair their relationships.

Your online campus that trains you to help couples repair their relationships.

The Relationship Lab

Vulnerability is the key

to relationship success.

And it's not taught anywhere.

21 phrases that end every argument

The only proven way to restore a marriage

Until now.

Learn the art of what makes you loveable.

DEREK HART

The Relationship Lab

The Relationship Lab

The Relationship Lab

Vulnerability is the key

Vulnerability is the key

Vulnerability is the key

to relationship success.

to relationship success.

to relationship success.

And it's not taught anywhere.

And it's not taught anywhere.

And it's not taught anywhere.

Until now.

Learn the art of what makes you loveable.

Relationship Lab Tablet
DEREK HART

The Relationship Lab

Vulnerability is the key

to relationship success.

And it's not taught anywhere.

Until now.

Learn the art of what makes you loveable.

21 phrases that end every argument

The only proven way to restore a marriage

Relationship Lab Points
Witness How Couples Come Back Into Connection

Build the proper skillset. Learn from live couples sessions. Recognize how vulnerability secures their relationship.

THEN PRACTICE CONNECTION EXERCISES WITH OTHERS DURING OUR LIVE SESSIONS

Relationship advice usually doesn’t help. Your loved ones mean well, and miss the mark entirely. Together we will accomplish the delicate improvisation that is necessary to understand how to bring two people, that are upset with each other, back to love.

Vulnerability

There is a hidden safety level in every relationship that determines if it's safe to take a risk. Learn how to see it clearly.

Emotion

Emotion is the messenger of love. Understand the emotional signals you send, and the ones sent back to you.

Attachment Style

Become clear if you protest to feel understood, withdraw and go away, or a little of both.

Reactivity

Understand what happens at the exact moment someone hurts you or steps over your boundaries.

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MOST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE
WON'T HELP YOU.
I WANT TO GIVE YOU THE
EXACT STEPS TO KNOW...
how your predictable struggle
can be interrupted.
MOST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE WON'T HELP YOU.
I WANT TO GIVE YOU THE EXACT STEPS TO KNOW...
how your predictable struggle can be interrupted.

Does this happen?

Yelling or blaming?

Arguing with no repair?

Creating the exact same fights?

Invalidating each other?

Criticizing or feeling criticized?

Walking on eggshells?

Barely listen to each other?

Then stop doing this:

Analyzing your partner's flaws.

Coaching your partner.

Trying to make them feel better.

Solving problems by arguing details.

Trying to be heard over and over.

Explaining your point over and over.

Calling them avoidant or anxious.

Relationships End

Most relationships end for one reason.

It has nothing to do with compatibility, communication styles, love languages nor attachment styles.

Connection takes 30 seconds. Distress takes hours. Learn the one predictable fight that keeps you out of love.

"That wasn't my intention. That's your story on your side. You need to take ownership of your feelings. I can't make you feel anything." This is the most damaging information taught about relationships, that it's your fault if you feel hurt. We are wired to need each other, and we have to help each other when we hurt each other. MANY relationship courses teach this misinformation.

Most relationships end for one reason.

It has nothing to do with compatibility, communication styles, love languages nor attachment styles.

Connection takes 30 seconds. Distress takes hours. Learn the one predictable fight that keeps you out of love.

"That wasn't my intention. That's your story on your side. You need to take ownership of your feelings. I can't make you feel anything." This is the most damaging information taught about relationships, that it's your fault if you feel hurt. We are wired to need each other, and we have to help each other when we hurt each other. MANY relationship courses teach this misinformation.

Most relationships end for one reason.

It has nothing to do with compatibility, communication styles, love languages nor attachment styles.

Connection takes 30 seconds. Distress takes hours. Learn the one predictable fight that keeps you out of love.

"That wasn't my intention. That's your story on your side. You need to take ownership of your feelings. I can't make you feel anything." This is the most damaging information taught about relationships, that it's your fault if you feel hurt. We are wired to need each other, and we have to help each other when we hurt each other. MANY relationship courses teach this misinformation.

Double Bind

The source of all conflict is two people wishing the other would respond differently. That is the real conversation underneath the conversation.

Coping Strategies

Nobody has ever shown you what to do when you get scared, frustrated, irritated, hurt in relationship. Learn the steps to do instead.

Yes Must Replace No

Your relationship falls apart because your continuous answer to each other is No, you shouldn't feel that. But should you say yes to them if you don't agree?

Poor Training

The least effective thing I can do as your couples coach is teach you relationship information. I must show you an experience of connection with your partner.

Relationship Lab What's Included
What's Included:
Relationship Lab Online Event
Twice Per Month Live Relationship Lab
Derek will take couples from distress back to closeness. Then questions and answers will be asked, for you to answer with others in your private zoom rooms. Then we all deepen with large group sharing. This is your relationship lab.
Twice Per Month Live Relationship Lab
Derek will take couples from distress back to closeness. Then questions and answers will be asked, for you to answer with others in your private zoom rooms. Then we all deepen with large group sharing. This is your relationship lab.
Courses
All Online Courses
Immediate Unlimited Access To All Online Courses From Derek's Vault Over The Last 10 Years, Plus Early Access To All Live Couples Training Sessions.
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All Online Courses
Immediate Unlimited Access To All Online Courses From Derek's Vault Over The Last 10 Years, Plus Early Access To All Live Couples Training Sessions.
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0 Videos
0 Lessons
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Community
Your Community
Events will be planned. Connections will be made. Our live meetings are only the start of the relationships you will build here. A group dedicated to getting better at vulnerability.
Office hours Q&A
Deep empathic support
Faster clarity for you
Your Community
Events will be planned. Connections will be made. Our live meetings are only the start of the relationships you will build here. A group dedicated to getting better at vulnerability.
Office hours Q&A
Deep empathic support
Faster clarity for you
Your Community
Events will be planned. Connections will be made. Our live meetings are only the start of the relationships you will build here. A group dedicated to getting better at vulnerability.