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Marriage 2.0™

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Renew your relationship, create a new version of love that is stronger than before, and know every step of the way how to deepen instead of disconnect.

Renew your relationship, create a new version of love that is stronger than before, and know every step of the way how to deepen instead of disconnect.

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What It Was Like and What It's Like Now

Join our worldwide community of couples that are reinventing their love.

Place Her Tear On You

"Do you have a tear of hers on your finger Max? Can you put it on your eye?

Jen & Max

Thank You For Helping My Parents

"I thought I was going to have to choose which parent to live with. Instead, I helped decide where we went on family vacation. I'm so grateful my parents found you."

Carolyn West, New York City, NY

We Were At Our Wits End, Really Not Communicating

"If we would have started to work with you, we probably wouldn't have gotten separated. We remembered that we're a team, not on opposite teams."

Vanessa Simpkins & Alex Taylor

I Would Share A Feeling, You Would Withdraw, I Would Chase You

"When we went to see you, we were desperate. This will either end us or begin us. After working with Derek, we woke up, and we have tools, and we use them all the time."

Denise & Eric

Two Years Later It's Really Juicy and Sexy and Fun

"The closeness we have now is better than at any time in our marriage. It feels really good to stick it out with your person you promised your life to."

Lasse & Desiree Green

Derek Kept Seeing Us From A Higher Perspective

"Working with Derek I feel is a huge part of why we're married and who we are to each other and that's worth more than you could ever imagine."

Emily & Jed

Couples learned
how to hear each other
how to feel seen
how to listen when they disagree
compassion
they don't have all the answers
the right emotional signals
vulnerable words to use
how to listen and repair one topic
they both wanted to recommit
how to bring their partner close
the exact moment arguments begin
what to do instead of criticize
how to ask for what they need
how to feel heard
why their partner runs away
how to allow mistakes and do-overs
how to risk and feel safe
the move from intellect to feelings
how to both feel understood
new communication
how criticized they both feel
why positive intentions aren't enough
why taking a timeout rarely helps
what to pay attention to
how to stop being defensive
how to listen and what to listen for
Couples Learned
how to hear each other
how to feel seen
how to listen when they disagree
compassion
they don't have all the answers
the right emotional signals
vulnerable words to use
how to listen and repair one topic
they both wanted to recommit
how to bring their partner close
the exact moment arguments begin
what to do instead of criticize
how to ask for what they need
how to feel heard
why their partner runs away
how to allow mistakes and do-overs
how to risk and feel safe
the move from intellect to feelings
how to both feel understood
new communication
how criticized they both feel
why positive intentions aren't enough
why taking a timeout rarely helps
what to pay attention to
how to stop being defensive
how to listen and what to listen for
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