The Listening Course Home My Courses Course Content Lessons Status 1 Learn What Listening Is, And What Listening Is Not 2 Listen For Feelings, And How Meaningful They Are 3 Positive Communication Happens In Real Time 4 Only One Person At A Time Can Feel Understood 5 The First Defensive Moment Interrupts Closeness 6 What Are You Defending, And Why Are You Defending It? 7 Defensiveness And Criticism Interrupt Connection 8 Vulnerability Shocks Your Partner Into Being Loving 9 Only A Deeply Sensitive Approach Will Be Heard 10 Listen To Each Other, One At A Time