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At the end of a life, most people don’t wish they spent more time working, taken more vacations, exercised more, or eaten better: they wish they spent more time connecting in their deepest relationships. Most of us spend almost no time learning how to do this better. Learning to share honestly, risk vulnerability, and eliminate a life of emotional defensiveness is one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself, your loved ones, and everybody that is touched by your life.

Learn The 5 Words to easily Repair Your Marriage…

 

IT’S WITHIN YOUR REACH TO CREATE AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP

Moment by moment,

with each approach towards your partner,

are you being vulnerable or defensive?

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You deserve the truth about the inside scoop on the best, most scientifically researched way to help your relationship thrive!

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The problem is not that we are too dependent and needy with each other.

The problem is that we’ve learned to not fully show how strong our need is for connection.

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Seeing and being seen, and mutual understanding of each other, are critical to our self-actualization and inner calming.

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You must cultivate a sense of safety for your relationship to grow. Understanding each other’s feelings must come before verification of facts.

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The belief that you have to love yourself before you can love another makes love almost unreachable. Understanding this dramatically improves your own individual independence and strength.

After 26 years of successfully helping relationships rebuild, I built the Understand Each Other Framework. This Framework is described in bite sized chunks in my book Healing The Hurt.

It is now possible for couples to understand that there are

predictable reasons why arguments never resolve.

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To rebuild your relationship, knowing what to stop focusing on is as important, if not more important, than knowing what to focus on.

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You don’t have to figure this out all by yourselves any longer.

 I’m here to teach you how to reach for each other, and feel that your partner has your back.

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