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“I WANTED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE. WHAT I GOT WAS A LIFELONG LEARNING ABOUT HOW TO REPLACE DEFENSIVENESS WITH LISTENING, AND WHY MY HUSBAND GOES OUT OF HIS WAY NOW TO LOVE ME UP.”

– Sarah Parker

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Soften Defensiveness

Create a new atmosphere of listening, and learn what you BOTH need.

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Rebuild Trust Together

Learn the ONE love language of telling the truth, with sensitivity.

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Understand Each Other

Fall back in love when you defend nothing, by hearing the heart first.

My husband listens to me now. I’m not sure he ever did before. I fell in love with him again, maybe even more.

- Pamela & Jonathan

It's the first time a man has seen inside my relationship and has heard what I’ve been trying to say for years.

- Katie & Michael

These profound tools have created a closeness and intimacy that we have never experienced.

- Dee & Ozzie

At the end of a life, people don’t wish they had spent more time working hard, earning more money, or collecting more possessions.

They wish they risked showing themselves fully to at least one person.

Replace Criticism With These 5 Words…

And Your Frustrations With Each Other Will Melt Away…

So when there is ANY disconnect in your relationship, pull out this After-Argument Repair Guide.

Moment by moment,

with each approach towards your partner,

are you being vulnerable or defensive?

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There is only one love language, the language of telling the truth, with sensitivity towards the other, awareness of your intent, and defending nothing until the heart is heard.

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The problem is not that we are too dependent and needy with each other.

The problem is that we’ve learned to not fully show how strong our need is for connection.

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Seeing and being seen, and mutual understanding of each other, are critical to our self-actualization and inner calming.

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You must cultivate a sense of safety for your relationship to grow. Understanding each other’s feelings must come before verification of facts.

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The belief that you have to love yourself before you can love another makes love almost unreachable. Understanding this dramatically improves your own individual independence and strength.

After 26 years of successfully helping relationships rebuild, I built the Understand Each Other Framework. This Framework is described in bite sized chunks in my book Healing The Hurt.

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You don’t have to figure this out all by yourselves any longer.

 I’m here to teach you how to reach for each other, and feel that your partner has your back.

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 A powerful place to start fully showing up for your partner is by learning the top 21 phrases to instantly stop an argument.

 These phrases are outlined in the

Marriage On Track™ FREE gift for you…

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